Travel Notes

I spent this past week in Washington, DC for work and I’m headed to San Francisco next week for a work-related conference. After only being gone once since we got home with Li, being gone two weeks in a row is tough (tough on Deb, too). The timing of the two trips was coincidental as well as bad, but I’d put off traveling to DC for a couple of requests, and had swapped with Jeff at work one, so it really couldn’t be avoided.

I found som good food in DC, which I still think is probably the best thing about getting to travel occasionally for work. In a wierd twist, it was Jeff — who used to be very reluctant to try different things to eat — that gave me the recommendation for the best place I ate this time in DC: Rasika, an Indian restaurant in the 600 block of D Street down just off the Mall. I also had very good Mexican with Cynthia and Temo on evening.

The trip to SF this next week is for a conference (Adobe’s MAX conference, actually). It will be good to get to soak up some technical stuff for a few days. The single most interesting thing to me will be to see if Adobe says anything about a long-rumored IDE for ColdFusion (likely to be Eclipse-based). Lots of indicators around, including hints from leading figures within the CF community at Adobe, and a strong silence from the developer of CFEclipse when questioned. The big question seems to be price for such an IDE, and as an open source advocate (personnally and at work), my hope is that such an effort would be both open and free, but I realize that from Adobe, that’s not likely.

The Great (Little) Pumpkin

Our little pumpkin
Our little pumpkin

Li’s first Halloween passed last weekend. We aren’t one of those families that go crazy over Halloween. We did want to have her at least do a little bit of visiting with neighbors, so Deb had started working on a costume for her earlier this fall. She’d found a pattern for a cute bunny rabbit costume, but it became pretty obvious that it wasn’t going to work fairly quickly. Deb started with the hood that has the big floppy ears, and although Li would laugh when one of use wore it, she had no interest at all in allowing us to put it on her head. So we had to come up with a different idea…

Some friends had given Li a nice warm, orange pair of fleece pants and matching top, and Deb’s idea was to use it to turn Li into a little jack o’lantern…

Happy Halloween!
Happy Halloween!

Here’s the result: we thought it turned out pretty well and Li loved it. We wondered how long the stem and leaves would be allowed to stay on her head, but she seemed to really like it. She seemed a little dubious about the whole concept of going to visit several of our neighbors at first, but as soon as she figured out they would fawn over her and give her treats, she started to get into it. The little legs didn’t last long, but she had a great time visiting a few of our friends.

There must be dust everywhere…

Li’s new thing — it started Friday after helping Deb clean the house — is dusting. She carries around a dustrag (she heads for the rag bag first thing in the morning now, even before juice) to get a rag, and then spends time off and on all through the day dusting window sills, furniture, carpet, her brother, Monkey, you name it. And she walks around saying “dust!” as she does it. Too cute…

I had no idea there was so much dust…

End of the Season

Late summer mornings working in the flower beds with Mom
Late summer mornings working in the flower beds with Mom

It has been quite a while since I wrote much, but it feels like we’ve reached a couple of recent “ends” within the past couple weeks all at roughly the same time…

We’ve reached the end of the fall soccer season just a couple of days. One of the teams I coach at Taylorview reached the semi-finals of the post-season tournament before losing 3-2 in a penalty kick shootout. The finished the season with a very decent record, going into the tournament as the #2 seed from the south pod of the league. They played well the last four matches of the season, finishing strong, playing decent defense and a very attractive style. These guys were a treat to work with these past three months and as much as I’m looking forward to having my weekends and evenings back, I will miss these guys.

There's nothing like corn on the cob fresh from the garden!
There's nothing like fresh corn from the garden!

We’ve reached the end of the garden, too, with hard freezes pretty much every night now and having had our first snowfall, with a couple inches falling on Saturday (a large chunk of which fell during our first tournament match). The peaches are long since done, and we had an extraordinary crop this year. We thinned and thinned and thinned and still had more that we could eat. The strawberries and tomatoes and corn are done, too, and we’ll all miss that. Li will miss it as much or more than the rest of us…

And we’ve reached the end of the summer in more than just a calendar sense. We’re definitely in autumn now, with cold mornings and evenings, ever-shortening days, golden light in the evenings, the occasional snowfall, and heavy frosts in the morning. Li is back in her fleece sleepers at night, although she pretty much refuses to let us pull down the feet to cover up those cold little toes of hers. She now snuggles up each night with not just her stuffed monkey (named “Monkey”, of course) but also a stuff cow named “Boo” (Li-speak for “moo”) and doll her friend Kate gave her (named “Doll”, appropriately). When she’s ready to get up in the mornings, she’ll be standing there in the crib with a big smile (most days) and her arms full of her friends, waiting to be picked up.

Just two more cherry tomatoes...
Just two more cherry tomatoes...

Her vocabulary is blossoming, and words are coming in pairs more and more frequently. We can’t drive anywhere without her pointing out all of the “big trucks” (which to the unlearned sounds much like “boo duck”) and “big trees” (“boo tees”). “Please” is making more frequent appearances, as is “Daddy”. Her all-purpose word these days is “dosh”, which we finally decided is sort of like “sauce” and she uses it for both apple sauce and soap (“body sauce”, I suppose) in the bath tub. She knows that balls are for kicking, and loves chasing her soccer balls around the house and kicking them back and forth with Ian. (And I caught her reading the adidas section of the Eurosport catalog this evening before dinner!)

Our friend Teri’s dog named Rudy is “Dee”, Ian’s girlfriend Fi is “Fee” or “Gee”, and Ian is something that sounds quite a bit like “bro” right now. Yoghurt is “doo” or something like that. “Peach” and “apple” are very recognizable, as is “juice”, “up”, “down”, “house”, “bath”, “bus”, “dog”, “kitty”, “duck” (although a duck’s quack still sounds alot like a dog growling), “book”, and “goat”.

Six Months Later

Li sits at the top of the slide on the playground on a sunny summer morning, considering what lies ahead of her.
Li sits at the top of the slide on the playground on a sunny summer morning, considering what lies ahead of her.

Today marks six full months since we received Li. That it has been six months already is hard to believe in many ways. The changes in our little girl over those six months have been extraordinary, exciting to watch, and exciting to be part of. She has changed and grown in so many ways. Her life and ours have taken on a new rhythm, particularly over the past couple of months.

We continue to be amazed at — and grateful for — the blessings we have been given in this little girl.