Wednesday Update

It’s Wednesday evening, and we’re all doing well. Li is an amazing, beautiful girl; China is an amazing place; Ian is an amazing big brother; and each day brings big changes.

Li Zhong and Deb - Nanchang, TuesdayEach day brings big steps. Monday was an early start, which was really hard after such a tough evening on Sunday (“gotcha day”). We had early appointments at three different government offices to get the paperwork started for Li Zhong’s travel visa and to finalize the adoption. She did great, however. She was up early on her own, which helped even if she wasn’t really rested. She ate well — she loves fruit (which helps in lots of ways, if you know what I mean!) and she loves riding in the bus. By the time we left the last set of appointments and got back to our hotel a little after noon, she was well past her point of no return and she went into meltdown mode as soon as we were back in our room. And the meltdown lasted pretty much until 9pm when she collapsed exhausted. A tough afternoon on all of us.

She did sleep most of the night, though, waking once to briefly take a bottle and then sleeping until almost 8am.

Tuesday was much more relaxing, with nothing specific planned in the morning other than a quick checkup with a doctor here in the hotel room — she is completely healthy. The doctor did comment with a laugh on her cheeks and her thighs (she is by far the heaviest of all of the girls in our group). Li Zhong and Ian - Nanchang, TuesdayThere’s a temple and pagoda with their entrance to the grounds about a block from our hotel, so we walked down there in the morning. Li seems to like being outside and the temple grounds are fenced, so they are much more peaceful than the bustling city around us. Lots to look at and see and she really did enjoy being out. Ian and I climbed to the top story of the pagoda (he got some pix I will post at some point) — imagine 10 stories of ladders to get to the top (and then back down)… an amazing view of the city around us.

In the afternoon, most of our group went to Peoples’ Park, a huge park here in Nanchang. Fish ponds, paths, lots and lots of people out enjoying a grey but not rainy day. Ian attracted quite a crowd while he was juggling his soccer ball, between being pretty good with the ball and being blond and blue-eyed. Our group attracted lots of attention with our bunch of girls. The people of China are amazing: they are so open and friendly and curious, and their reaction when they find out why we have these little girls is touching. They are so excited for these little girls, it is hard to explain.

The park has a pond where they will zip you inside an inflated ball about 2 meters in diameter and then send you out on the pond. You have to try to stand up in the ball and sort of run inside it to make the ball move around on the water. It is hilarious to watch. More photos of Ian coming on that one, too…

Again, Li just loved being outside and watching things going on around her…

Evening was tough again, though, as she started screaming pretty much as soon as we were back in the hotel and didn’t let up until she collapsed around 9pm. She did sleep pretty well, though, waking up around 4am when she drained two whole bottles in about two minutes, and then slept until about 7:30.

Li woke up pretty happy, had a bit to eat and drink and was content to sit on the bed playing and looking at books while we got ready to go eat breakfast — which is a huge change from the past couple of days where she has been very clingy, demanding to be constantly held (Deb and I refer to this as the Chinese weightlifting program, as we are both exhausted from this by the end of the day, as she is a solid 24 pounds and very strong!). Along with a couple other families, we caught taxis to go to a local market (Evelyn, our local rep, wrote out directions in Mandarin to give to the drivers to get us there and back again).  Traffic here is unbelievable — I will write more on that at some point, too — but we made it. The market is a huge building backed with little bitty stalls where people sell stuff. Again, the girls got lots of attention and the people were friendly, curious, and amazing in their reactions when they found out why we have them…

Li Zhong - Nanchang, WednesdayThe afternoon was very low key. Li was perfectly content again to sit on the bed and just play and is becoming much more verbal — both good signs. She is also much more willing to be held by any of the three of us, which is again a good sign (and a welcome relief for my aching arms and back!). She really did have a great day, she’s eating and drinking, pooping — all the things we love in babies. She’s smiling more, she’s ticklish, she gives kisses. The only bad part today was the pre-bed meltdown, which again was an hour of uninterrupted screaming…

Li is beautiful, strong, healthy, curious, becoming much more verbal, clearly becoming much more secure in her relationships with all three of us. She is also very strong willed, and each day so far she has clearly been happier. She is very attentive, and is very coordinated. And yes, those cheeks are every bit as big as they look in the pictures, maybe bigger — she has three sets of dimples.

Each day of this phase of our journey has shown big changes… and there’s more to come.

4 thoughts on “Wednesday Update”

  1. Praise God! We were anxiously awaiting your next post and We are excited to hear that things are going so more easily than they did on “gotcha day”.

  2. Wow! What an adventure for all of you. I’m really hoping to see some pix of you zipped inside a plastic ball. That could make for a great cubicle poster.

    Your “Gotcha Day” picture made me chuckle, and not just because of the adorable fuzzy PINK pjs. The look that was on your face is one that I’m sure I’ve stumbled into work with on my face a few times. Hang in there…and keep the posts coming!

  3. Hey guys, this is Blaine’s wife, Kim. So he has been keeping me updated on your whole adventure, and showed me your blog last night. I can’t tell you how happy we are for your family! She is a doll, especially when she smiles! I love the chubby cheeks! 🙂 I’m sorry to hear about the night melt-downs, cuz those are never fun! I cringe just thinking about how stressful that is on you. But it is great to hear how well she is adjusting to you all, and how happy she is. I hope the melt-downs get shorter and shorter, and the smiles get bigger and bigger. She is so cute, and I’m so happy for your sweet family. We will keep ya in our prayers as well, and hope the rest of your trip is a Great one! Thanks for sharing with the rest of us. What a wonderful blessing! 🙂

  4. Congratulations! We’ve been enjoying your pictures and updates. I bet it’s great to be home and start settling into your new life.

    Li is absolutely beautiful. It’s so good to see how healthy and strong she is. And as awful as the crying is, she’s getting it all out, and they say that’s good. Erin screamed for hours and hours the first day and nothing I did would comfort her. We were all exhausted.

    Erin is SO excited to meet Li. (Although I have to tell you that Li would whoop her in a wrestling match!) We all look forward to meeting her when things settle down for you.

    Stephanie, Stuart, Andy and Erin

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